I am sorry, I am just trying to keep my head up. First time learning DipTrace and I really want to give it a good try but I feel like I keep spending way to much time making small progress. And no, the component I use are not found in stock DipTrace library. If you have many libraries with one pattern in each library you can do the following.
Open library setup, create custom library group and add library folder to the group. Start PCB Layout, select library group, select each library and drag its pattern from library to design area. When you complete you can save design cache as a library. You can remove all libraries except design cache library as it consists of all patterns. You can do the same with component libraries, the only difference you should save design cache from Schematic.